Years ago when I was a young mom, one of my daughter’s preschool teachers made an off-handed comment to me that came across as very condescending and judgemental. I was reminded of this scenario a few weeks ago in a conversation with my daughter. I started telling her about it, and she said, “Wow, you remember every detail.” She’s right. That happened more than 20 years ago, but I remember every part of the conversation.