New England Perspectives
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Perfect Parenting
Like most parents, I think I felt most confident in my parenting abilities before I became one. I would look at other people’s screaming toddlers in the grocery store and think that my children would never act in such a way. Elementary school bully... not my kid. Backtalking, eye-rolling teenagers? My children will never do such a thing. Then I became a parent. Faced with the reality of day to day parenting, my children’s inherent sin nature (and mine), and my need for sleep and alone time, parenting became daunting.
Push Past False Expectations This Christmas
I have a confession. I’m turning into one of those people that loves cheesy Christmas movies. As things in life get challenging and sometimes feel out of control, there’s something comforting about these simple, predictable stories with a happy ending. It’s great mindless entertainment, as long as we don’t see it as reality. Perhaps you see movies, social media feeds, and Christmas card photos that make you feel like everyone else is having a magical Christmas, while you are sitting in the midst of your chaos and suffering. For most of us, Christmas can’t be wrapped up neatly with a bow. It’s messy and complicated, but there’s still beauty and wonder to be found.
Speak Life
Years ago when I was a young mom, one of my daughter’s preschool teachers made an off-handed comment to me that came across as very condescending and judgemental. I was reminded of this scenario a few weeks ago in a conversation with my daughter. I started telling her about it, and she said, “Wow, you remember every detail.” She’s right. That happened more than 20 years ago, but I remember every part of the conversation.
Gift Ideas for Your Pastor
It’s that time of year when many people are buying special gifts to thank those that have helped them throughout the year like their mail carrier, hairdresser, or child’s teacher. And many also consider a special gift for their pastor. As a pastor’s wife of nearly 25 years, I can say that these gifts have always been appreciated… As much as those material gifts are enjoyed, I’d like to suggest some additional gifts that I know your pastor would appreciate as well.
Sunday’s Coming
This year my longing for Easter is greater than ever before. I don’t necessarily mean Sunday, April 9th. I mean a longing for healing and peace for our world that is only made possible through the resurrection. I mean a greater appreciation for Christ’s gift of salvation.
Faith Over Fear
A few weeks ago, my friends and I were talking about safety and fear. One friend shared how she is always prepared for a disaster. She’s thinking through safety protocols, searching for emergency exits, and just waiting for disaster to strike. That is definitely not me. I wouldn’t say I’m careless, but I definitely am not consumed by this fear. However, if you could see my thoughts, you might realize that I’m much more controlled by fear than I’d care to admit.