Why I Deactivated My Facebook Account

Why I Deactivated My Facebook Account

It was the middle of the afternoon, not late at night when my mind was tired or early in the morning before I had reminded myself of the Lord’s faithfulness and new mercies. I was alone, but not in a dangerous place. I was in my apartment. 

But maybe that seemingly safe setup added to the shock when I saw the disturbing news on my screen as I scrolled down my Facebook newsfeed.

The Early Years

The Early Years

The early years of ministry are difficult for everyone. Oftentimes during those first days, a lack of experience coupled with a youthful zeal leads to a myriad of mistakes. However innocent blunders are not the only faulty moves that young leaders make. Too often, young men and women fail due to character struggles with pride. Consequently, the pains of formation and the uncertainty of what is new causes many young leaders to quit.

Hope for Survivors

Hope for Survivors

Whether you have read the Bible or not, you have probably heard the saying “We have this hope as an anchor for our souls…” (Hebrews 6:19). This is a staple verse, if you will. It’s often written on beautiful decor for your home, fresh-brewed mugs of coffee, even jewelry. Unfortunately, when we see a phrase on a regular basis, it can lose the magnitude of meaning it was intended to have.

3 Ways a Pastor & His Wife Can Stay Madly in Love

3 Ways a Pastor & His Wife Can Stay Madly in Love

Pastors and wives, don't forget that there is one time the Bible commands you to get drunk: "...Be intoxicated always in her love." (Proverbs 5:19) God wants you to be drunk with love for your spouse. This is best for you, best for your spouse, best for your kids, best for your church, and it glorifies God. Pastors and wives face unique pressures and challenges due to our roles in the body of Christ. Here are three ways a pastor and wife can stay madly in love through all of the ups and downs of pastoral ministry.

YEC From a Student's Perspective

YEC From a Student's Perspective

The name “Youth Encountering Christ” fits the weekend so well as many kids from all across New England, some who may have never have heard about the Gospel, got to encounter our Savior. Since 1981 the BCNE has put on this amazing weekend which has saved many and showed many youth the Gospel truth. This year, 50 congregations from five New England states, a total of more than 750 people, gathered at the Sturbridge Host Hotel in Sturbridge, MA. Throughout this weekend-long retreat many lives were changed for the better.

Muffins & Maturity

Muffins & Maturity

“I threw on my sweats and got here as fast as I could. This is my favorite event at church, and I wasn’t going to miss it!”

That’s what Jane blurted out breathlessly one Saturday morning at a gathering we call Mug & Muffin. She had gotten up early with her three little boys but in the distractions of their morning routine had completely forgotten about this semi-annual women’s event. When she finally remembered, she dropped everything, explained things to her husband, said she’d be back in a couple of hours and dashed out of the house.

What the Patriots Taught Me About Church Leadership

What the Patriots Taught Me About Church Leadership

It is that time of year again here in New England – time to celebrate another winning Patriots season. But it’s not only their athletic skills that I admire.

A few years ago, they made the phrase “Do Your Job” popular, and my wife bought a Patriots beanie with that slogan. When they won Super Bowl 49 (I’m not so good at Roman numerals), there was a documentary called “Do Your Job” that followed the Patriots season. The filmmakers showed the interior of the Patriots offices, and etched on a glass door were the staff rules —

Of Transplant Pastors & New England Sports Fandom

Of Transplant Pastors & New England Sports Fandom

I’m 36 years old, and I’m from Dallas, Texas.

So what does that have to do with anything? Well, it means that I hit my most formative “fan years” at a very specific time period and in a very specific place. In the early nineties, like every other 10-year-old boy I knew, I began to become acutely aware of professional sports, and I was certain that I was going to be a multi-sport athlete when I grew up.

A White Man's Religion?

A White Man's Religion?

Ministry in the urban context comes with its own set of challenges. Among them are the objections to Christianity that run deep within inner-city communities of color. As I pastor in a neighborhood made up largely of ethnic minorities, it is not uncommon for me to hear someone dismiss the Christian faith purely because it is perceived to be “the white man’s religion, meant to oppress ethnic minorities.” It is important to note that this characterization of Christianity is not completely unfounded.

The Glory of Coming Undone

The Glory of Coming Undone

Go-getter. Independent. Fearless. Capable. In the American economy, these are titles worth striving for, and strive we do. We strive until our peace is shot-through with bullet holes, our families have learned to function without us, and our souls are withered and whimpering. "Arm yourselves!" is the new battle cry of the republic, and much of the church rushes to answer.

Four Churches That Need Partners the Most

Four Churches That Need Partners the Most

Over the years as I’ve helped churches make connections with mission teams and partners, I’ve worked with many churches that had difficulty finding partners. They’re not impossible to partner with, as nothing is impossible for God (Luke 18:27), but they do have extra challenges. I would encourage pastors and churches seeking to go on mission, to work through these challenges with sensitivity and the power of Christ. Sometimes these churches are the ones who are most in need of partners!

Seek the Welfare of the City: Engaging the Community

Seek the Welfare of the City: Engaging the Community

I have only been the lead pastor of two churches: a church plant in a rural-to-suburban community in Washington state and a replant/revitalization pastor of a church in the Charlestown neighborhood of Boston. On the surface there seems to be very little common ground, but something that I have learned in both roles is the importance of community engagement.

Stepping Out to Make a Difference

Stepping Out to Make a Difference

2018 was a year of firsts for me. I graduated college, traveled to places I had never been, started a new job and began working on my next degree. It was all so exciting and new. But one thing I did that wasn’t in my plans was say “yes” to leading children’s ministry at my church. Out of all my new experiences, this was, and continues to be, the scariest one.

Seeking God in Pain

Seeking God in Pain

I got a text message from a friend in Vermont over the New Year's holiday. She shared that a mutual friend, only a little older than me, had suddenly passed away. Though I had not talked to him in a few years, when I lived in Vermont he was a great colleague in ministry. Less than 24 hours later, one of our BCNE pastors sent me a text to say one of their youth workers, a really fine young man with a promising future, had also unexpectedly passed away that morning. So much loss. So much pain. Such a short time to process it. Many of my circle of friends were struggling with why God lets these things happen. One mused that perhaps there was no point in following Christ if we still have to endure such pain.

Deadly Fruit

Deadly Fruit

Of all the places I have been, the Amazon jungle is definitely the most interesting and exotic destination. There is a tremendous variety of animals and plants, many of which I had never even known existed. As we were walking by a small tree with some beautiful fruit that looked like apples, I asked the tour guide if I could pluck one and eat it. To which he replied, “Don’t be fooled by the beauty of that fruit, because it disguises death. One bite of that fruit could kill you.”

Put Your YES On the Table

Put Your YES On the Table

Everywhere we look, social media, adds, commercials, etc. We see promotions challenging us to make a change to kick off the new year, often with a specific S.M.A.R.T goal.  These goals might sound something like “I plan to lose 20 lbs before the summer begins” or “this new year I am limiting my time on Netflix to two hours a day.” Setting goals is a proven way to achieve growth in our lives.  However, what if you chose to do something different this year?